The Story God Was Writing-the beginning 🤍
“The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy.” — Psalm 126:3
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💕 It Started with a Dance Floor…
Tammy and I used to dance the night away at Tropix every single weekend. Somehow, I had never noticed Sean before.
One night I looked across the room and thought…
“Dang… he’s a hottie!” 😂
Ironically, my purse had recently been stolen, so I had to get a new phone. I figured it was the perfect excuse to ask for his number!
Well… I got his number……and then forgot to call him. 😬 Oops!
The following weekend I told him I would definitely call him!
He teased me, saying, “Yeah right, whatever.”
I told him, “No, I promise!”
He replied, “Fine… but call before 9 a.m. because I’m going fishing.”
I remember thinking…
“What 21-year-old voluntarily wakes up at 9 a.m. to go fishing?”
Turns out… Sean did. 😆 I would learn soon enough he was an AVID fisherman!
I woke up at 8:50, called him just in time, and we talked for almost two hours until his dad made him hang up to go fishing!
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❤️ The Beginning of Forever
The next night, we met up at Tropix, hung out, and he gave me a ride in his car
The first thing I noticed?
He drove a red Nissan Mach 1.
I thought… “This guy is hot… with a hot car!” 😂
Not long after that, we started dating, and our very first official date was his grandpa’s birthday party.
I’ll never forget it. Family was important to me, and it made my heart happy to know it was important to him too!
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🥰 Falling in Love
The first time I met Sean’s family, I was so nervous.
Then his mom pulled out…BABY PICTURES!
I remember thinking, “Only moms in 80’s sitcoms do that!” 😂 That was enough for me to know this guy was THE ONE!
I was completely smitten.
We became inseparable.
Just a few months later, on Easter, I found out I was pregnant with Jake.
Soon after, Sean asked me to marry him.
That August…we said, “I do.”
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🌿 Twenty-Five Years Later
Life hasn’t always been easy.
Our knot has been stretched by raising children, special needs parenting, heartbreaking loss, grief, healing, and seasons we never imagined walking through.
But…it has never been broken.
Through every high and every valley, God has remained faithful.
He has carried us, strengthened us, and reminded us again and again that a cord of three strands truly is not quickly broken.
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🤍 Still Amazed
Our wedding song was “Amazed.”
Twenty-five years later…I can honestly say…I’m still amazed.
Amazed by the man God gave me.
Amazed by His faithfulness.
Amazed that after all these years, we still choose each other every single day.
It Takes a Village 🤍
Our story isn’t just the story of Sean and me. Over the years, God has woven some pretty incredible people into our lives — people who have prayed with us, laughed with us, cried with us, stood beside us through the hard stuff, and celebrated the good stuff right along with us.
When we renewed our vows after 25 years of marriage, these were the people we chose to stand closest to us. Not because we needed a “wedding party,” but because each of them represents a piece of the life God has helped us build.
They’re part of our village. Part of our history. And definitely part of our story. 💗
Kendall-My bestie, She carried the cross with her hubby Kyle. The cross is the foundation of our family. Jesus=Everything!
God knew exactly what He was doing when He made us neighbors. We’ve only lived next door a few years, but it felt like we’d been best friends from the start. We bonded as fellow non-drivers, proud “Passenger Princesses,” laughed until we cried about our own neighborhood “Ugly Naked Guy,” IYKYK! We have hilarious inside jokes, and we have ridden out literal storms on the lake together. “You Jump, I Jump.” We didn’t just build a friendship—we built a family. Through every laugh and every changing season, Jesus has been the steady foundation beneath us. She’s my fiercest prayer warrior, my favorite partner in problem-solving, and my sister from another mister. Some friendships are discovered—ours was God allll GOD!
I never thought Sean and I would be blessed to have best friends who were a couple, and here we are…God is so good!
Kyle-Seans bestie and Kendall’s hubby
Whatever one does, the other isn’t far behind. Same car, Matching wedding bands—just different inner colors. Same stance on the softball field. Same walk. Same look. They even get home runs right after the other lol! If you know them, you know. 😂
But what they share goes far beyond the similarities. They’ve built a bond rooted in loyalty, trust, and having each other’s backs.
They’re not just best friends—they’re brothers from other mothers. The kind of brotherhood that’s hard to find and impossible to replace. God didn’t make them blood relatives, but He gave them something just as strong: a brother for life. 🤝
Honor Squad
Libby-My 7th grade bestie, she carried the rope symbolizing the partnership Sean and I have built.
Libbs and I go way back to 7th grade! She is my giggle-til-I-have-a-tummy-ache, true-blue, be-yourself-no-matter-what friend. She is beautiful inside and out and never hesitates to tell it like it is, and that honesty is one of the many things I love about her. Our memories range from decorating Tammy’s yard to cruising down 494 blasting “Holding Out for a Hero,” and so many more moments that make me smile. It’s a genuine honor to be her friend.
Tammy-My after graduation and dancing bestie, she carried the bunnies my dear grammy Margie gave me symbolizing the nurturing of our marriage through the years.
From a kindergarten friend to the dancing-queen bestie of our twenties, she’s been by my side for every major milestone. She proudly held the Maid of Honor title at my wedding, and she’s also one of my son’s Godmothers. She’s the fortunate one whose yard has been lovingly decorated on countless occasions by our Girlsquad, and she’s always up for a fun night out. You can always rely on her, and I love her dearly. She stood with me 25 years ago, and I’m deeply honored to have her stand with me again.
Maleah-My dear friend from jr high-she carried the book of Psalms representing peace and a wish for God to continue covering our marriage and our home through each season.
Maleah and I also met in 7th grade. She, Libby, and I attended BRAVO! — an alternative junior high school — and that’s where our friendship first began. Maleah is the friend I can always rely on to talk me through difficult moments, pray with me, and discuss the Bible, which means so much to me. I love her dearly and admire her heart; she’s a beautiful friend who shares my deep love for Jesus.
Molly-I met Molly later in life through our love of makeup. She carried a bell given to me by my grandma Betty symbolizing Joy and to keep choosing laughter and celebration.
Molly is the kind of friend who never lets you feel unimportant or unappreciated. I missed out on a girls’ day because I was sick, and instead of just saying, “Feel better,” she drove an hour and 45 minutes to my house just to ding-dong-ditch a homemade lasagna on my doorstep. She did the very same thing when I was struggling with panic attacks. She made that drive just to take a walk with me and remind me I wasn’t alone. That’s who Molly is. She’s always up for an adventure, always ready to laugh, and somehow manages to bring joy wherever she goes. Her heart is genuine, her friendship is unwavering, and she has a beautiful way of making the people around her feel deeply loved. Everyone deserves a Molly in their life.
She holds such a special place in my heart, and I’m beyond grateful to call her my friend.
Sarah-My sweet Sarah-She was unable to attend so Molly’s daughter stood in her place, Ella carried a jersey from Landon’s softball tournament symbolizing team and the team Sean and I are toghether! We always win…together!
Sarah and I go way back too! She’s sweet with a little spicy spark, incredibly genuine, and she carries such a humble, servant-hearted spirit. Whenever there’s an opportunity to be Jesus’ hands and feet, she’s the very first to step in. She’s always watching out for everyone, gently showering people with love, encouragement, and thoughtful care, making sure you truly feel valued, seen, and special.
Jaime-My girl Jaime carried a ighthouse representing guidance and the importance of God guiding us in the next phase of our marriage!
Jaime is our fashionista, shining in both her outfits and vibrant personality! Classy yet delightfully sassy, she’s always up for anything and brings fearless energy to every moment. She’s brave, incredibly smart, and absolutely hilarious—her wit keeps us laughing. I’m constantly learning from her, and I feel deeply honored to be part of her circle.
As for me personally,
Hey friend! I’m so glad you’re here.
I’m Missy!
A Jesus-loving wife
A “ma” to a 24-year-old son, a momma to a 15-year-old son in Heaven, and momma to three adorable Yorkies: Maggie Grace, Norah Mae, and Lucy Rose, our cat Buddy and our bunny Teddy.
I am the big sister to 3 amazing brothers and 1 amazing sister, sister-in-law to my two sweet bonus sisters, an auntie to my eight super awesome nieces and nephews, and a grammy to a precious grandson.
I have ALWAYS loved makeup, bags and jewelry!
I am passionate about helping others feel beautiful and healthy inside and out, so I am incredibly blessed to be partnered with Jordan Essentials, Celesty, Destiny Handbags, and Paparazzi Accessories where I can share my passion with others!
I’ve been in network marketing for close to a decade, and I truly love building relationships, encouraging others, and watching people grow into their God-given gifts!
Whether I’m planning a party, helping someone build their business, or just chatting about life over an ice water, my heart is to bring joy, hope, and a little sparkle wherever I go.
Thanks for stopping by—I can’t wait to connect with you!
Some fun facts about me (in no particular order)!
✝️I love and follow Jesus above all
🎉I am a party planner of all types
👚 I am a crafter and designer in my own 🏡
📕I am a published author
💄I partner with Jordan Essentials, Celesty Beauty, Destiny Handbags and Paparazzi Accessories
☎️I love vintage, nostalgia, and cottage core
⛵️I love taking walks and boat rides on Lake Pepin.
🔥I love bonfires
🥎 We are a softball family
⛪️I love our church
🌞I love sitting outside in the sun on a warm Sunday afternoon (any day really☺️)
🌸I love my friends and family!
💟 I really love the time I get with my nieces and nephews. Being an Auntie is my favorite!
♥️ I run a Shop Small Mall and weekly virtual vendor parties that helps small business owners! Send me a message if you are interested in being a vendor!